Moving On #1

Hello My Dear Readers,

I guess it’s been a while. Well, I’m temporarily back and I have lots and lots of emails to attend to. I have decided to summarize or group similar problems in one post so that I can attend to all the emails within a short time.

The title of this post is “Moving On” and this post would have 3 parts which I would post daily. As usual, no information on this blog will reveal any personal detail about anyone. Your Problems Are Safe With Me…


“Everyday gets harder because I can’t learn to get over the things I did in the past”

~ Anonymous To Anna….

Anna: Letting go doesn’t mean giving up… it means moving on. It is one of the hardest things a person can do. Starting at birth, we grasp on to anything we can get our hands on, and hold on as if we will cease to exist when we let go. We feel that letting go is giving up, quitting, and that as we all know is cowardly. But as we grow older we are forced to change our way of thinking. We are forced to realize that letting go means accepting things that cannot be. It means maturing and moving on, no matter how hard you have to fight yourself to do so… Moving On has allowed me to know who I am and to be present in all that I do. I take this forward in my life and in my personal relationships. It is a powerful program and I highly recommend it to anyone wanting to move on with their life. Moving on is a simple thing, what it leaves behind is hard. Don’t ruin a good today by thinking about a bad yesterday. Let it go. Let your past make you better, not bitter.

I wish I could go back and change my decisions. I wish I could become the person I have always wanted to become.”

Anonymous

Sharing her story with me, I realized that this particular individual was going through a lot of pain because she couldn’t forgive herself. It’s one thing to move on, it’s another thing to forgive yourself. Often, the thought of pain is actually worse that the pain itself. Quietly forgiving yourself and moving on is a gift to God and yourself. To be able to move on, one has to learn to forgive not only the person (or people) who have done one wrong but also oneself. What’s the point of pointing the finger, other than to stall your own progress in moving on? You are responsible for your life. You can’t keep blaming somebody else for your problems either. Life is really about moving on. There are 3 steps to move on. CTRL + ALT + DEL. Control yourself, look for an alternate solution, and delete the situation that hurts you. Forgive others not because they deserve forgiveness but because you deserve peace because to heal a wound, you need to stop touching it.

The people We Often Trust Betray Us The Most. I Have Trusted With All My Heart In The Past And I Was Broken. I Finally Found Peace And He Has Broken Me As Well. Anna, What Can I Do?

Anonymous

Trying to forget someone you love is like trying to remember someone you’ve never met. People change for two main reason : Either their minds have been opened or their hearts have been broken. The loneliest moment in someone’s life is when they are watching their whole world fall apart, and all they can do is stare blankly. The greater the love, the greater the tragedy when it’s over. BUT Sometimes the strongest people are the ones who love beyond all faults, cry behind closed doors and fight battles that nobody knows about. You are unique, Don’t date people who treat you like you aren’t. A break up is like a broken mirror. It is better to leave it broken than hurt yourself trying to fix it. The hardest thing is to hurt yourself for the sake of others’ happiness. Don’t ask why someone keep hurting you. Ask yourself why you’re allowing them. Breaking up is not a stupid thing; instead it makes you a better person and realize your mistakes. Deep down you know it’s best for yourself, but you hate the thought of him being with someone else BUT happiness is the best revenge!!! If your love does not work with that person, it just means that someone else loves you more. Take it and move on!!


Always aim high, work hard, and care deeply about what you believe in. When you stumble, keep faith. When you’re knocked down, get right back up. And never listen to anyone who says you can’t or shouldn’t go on. Sometimes It’s better to be alone because No one can hurt you. The problem is women think he will change, he won’t. And men make the mistake of thinking she will never leave, she will.Nothing is more beautiful than the smile that has struggled through the tears. Be happy with the little you have. There are some people with nothing who still manage to smile. Smiling is the best way to face every problem, to crush every fear, to hide every pain. Some people are going to leave, but that’s not the end of your story. That’s the end of their part in your story. It’s ok if you fall down and lose your spark. Just make sure that when you get back up. You rise as the whole damn fire. Sometimes the wrong choices bring us to the right places. A life without suffering is a life without happiness. Because nothing lasts forever, you better live in the moment.

Worry less. Smile more. Listen carefully. Take responsibility. Accept what you can’t change. Embrace the lessons. Love your life. Move On.

©Anna.

25 comments

  1. ahiricreates · July 18, 2021

    A beautiful post Anna! This thoughts are Soo pure and true!

    Sometimes letting go and moving on is very necessary..and it’s a part of life!
    Loved the post ❤️

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  2. Gibberish · June 23, 2021

    Such a powerful post with some important points. I especially loved the CTRL+ALT+DELETE concept(will definitely remember it) and this line ‘People change for two main reason : Either their minds have been opened or their hearts have been broken. ‘. ❤️❤️❤️❤️

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  3. Shivi 💜 · June 20, 2021

    Nice post girl☺

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  4. Hilal Yerlikaya · June 19, 2021

    Getting over something can be really hard. At first, I get upset, I find myself at the bottom. Then, the people around me show me myself. They say, look at yourself, know yourself. You’re amazing, and you’ll understand after you see it. Because, at first, people look for problems in themselves. Sure, it gets better. You take a deep breath. Its effect is slowly diminishing. Then this heavy load comes off. Finally we say, did I really get upset over this? 🤦🏻‍♀️

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  5. DutchIl · June 19, 2021

    Thank you for sharing!!… “There are things that we don’t want to happen but have to accept, things we don’t want to know but have to learn, people we can’t live without but have to let go.” ( Nancy Stephan)… 🙂

    Until we meet again..
    May your day be touched
    by a bit of Irish luck,
    Brightened by a song
    in your heart,
    And warmed by the smiles
    of people you love.
    (Irish Saying)

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    • anitaannabel · June 19, 2021

      A lovely contribution from a lovely blogger…
      Have a lovely day🤗❤

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  6. katiemiafrederick · June 19, 2021

    Now Forever Annabel
    Longest Place
    Lasting Love
    Essence
    There of
    Key To Success
    LiVE iN Loves’s
    Place Open
    All New
    And Old
    Doors Creating
    Love Keys For
    Every
    Kind of
    Door
    Entering
    Higher Floor’s
    LiGHT Leaving
    Same Ahead Now🏝

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    • anitaannabel · June 19, 2021

      Here you go again Katie😅
      I often prefer to read your comments more than I read others 🤗🤗
      Filled with a lot of important words👍

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      • katiemiafrederick · June 19, 2021

        Only if You
        Inspire Words
        Dear With SMiles

        Annabel

        Do Know/Feel
        Not Everyone

        Sees What i
        Write Hehe

        Indeed You
        Are Inspiring to me🙌😊

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  7. Dee.Cee · June 19, 2021

    Well written.

    Liked by 1 person

  8. mobarak · June 19, 2021

    nice words, with some great advices her, thanks for sharing with us

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  9. Marlapaige · June 18, 2021

    This is beautiful. So very true. But it still hurts like hell.

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  10. nedhamson · June 18, 2021

    Reblogged this on Ned Hamson’s Second Line View of the News.

    Liked by 2 people

  11. Gayatri Bagayatkar · June 18, 2021

    Beautiful thoughts , moving on needs a lot of letting go , forgiving , moving accepting it as a part of past that cant be changed . 🙂❤️

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  12. kinge · June 18, 2021

    Forgiveness goes both ways, so true. I’ve learnt a new concept that I plan to stick with; CTRL + ALT + DEL.

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  13. vaniheart · June 17, 2021

    I relate to the second one the most and those are some beautiful words Anna❤❤❤

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