Teach Others How To Treat You

You Teach Others How To Treat You By What You Allow, What You Stop And What You Reinforce.

Tony Gaskins

You silently teach others how to treat you by how you treat yourself. Move yourself up your priority list immediately. Make yourself your priority. At the end of the day, you are your longest priority. The one thing you can control is how you treat yourself and that one thing can change everything. You can’t always expect others to treat you right but you can treat yourself right. The way you treat yourself sets the standard for others. Life becomes good when you become good to yourself as you are to others. It’s not selfish, it’s called self love.

Be careful what you tolerate, you are teaching people how to treat you. You can’t force people to respect you but you can refuse to tolerate their disrespect. The more chances you give someone, the less respect they start to have for you. They will begin to ignore the standards you have set because they know another chance will be given to them. They are not afraid to lose you because they know that no matter what, you won’t walk away. They get comfortable depending on your forgiveness. Never let a person get comfortable disrespecting you. Don’t tolerate disrespect, even from yourself.

You are not in this world to live up to anyone’s expectations. Live for yourself, for your dreams, for your happiness. You are you and that’s what matters. You are not here merely to make a living, you are here in order to enable the world live more amply, with a greater vision, with a finer spirit of hope and achievement. You are here to enrich the world and you impoverish yourself if you forget that errand. Don’t blame people for disappointing you, blame yourself for expecting too much from them. Be positive, stay happy and don’t let the negativity of this world get you down.


Inspiration

My boyfriend treats me like trash. He disconnects my call intentionally and ignores me. He always makes me feel worthless. I've told this to him. But he repeats the same. How can I overcome this?

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One comment

  1. katiemiafrederick · March 20

    SMiLes Dear Annabel Nice to
    See You Blogging on This
    Word Press Site Again

    And True All We Really
    Control Is What We Receive
    By Giving Whether that is to Our
    Selves or Others And Truly When

    We Arrive to A Place on Our Own
    At Best Naked, Enough, Whole, Complete

    There is Nothing Anyone Will Possibly Take
    Away From Us Now

    As Long As

    We Are All in All Complete
    Surely Gives Plenty of Room For
    Giving Yet of Course There are Limits
    It’s One thing Hehe When a FRiEnD Pays

    one No Responses It’s Another Thing if my
    Wife Decides to Stop Feeding me Then i’d

    Have to

    Learn to Cook hehe
    Or Of Course Go Out to
    Eat or Call in Delivery to my Door

    True It’s Important to Have Plans A, B, and C,
    So You Don’t Do F, And Fail in Today’s Life Now

    My Wife Does Plan E, Everything For me So Who
    i Am to Judge Anyone Else Truly No One At All mY FRiEnD..:)

    Liked by 1 person

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